Being a Companion
My fellow scholastics and I chose to engage in societal service at Realino Foundation in Yogyakarta, assisting children at the Realino Learning Community (KBR) in Bongsuwung and Jombor. My experience volunteering at Realino Community Service (Realino SPM) led to deep reflections on life. As a volunteer, I acted not only as a facilitator but also as a friend, listener, and caregiver. This experience reminded me of the spirit and dedication of my congregation’s founder, Father Leo John Dehon, who advocated for the lives of labor and the poor. Father Dehon serves as a role model for us Dehonians in addressing social issues. I strive to emulate his spirit, especially in my service to the community and the Church.
Teaching children at KBR Bongsuwung and Jombor is not an easy task. Amid their joy and enthusiasm, I often face challenges. Many children are influenced by a toxic culture that distances them from values of respect and politeness. I observed some behaving impolitely and using ill-mannered words. However, there were also joyful moments during the service. I felt proud and happy to share experiences, build relationships with other volunteers, and connect with the children of KBR. All of these just united the volunteers and fostered solidarity among us. We supported one another to remain committed to giving our best for the children. The memorable moments filled with laughter created lasting memories, and I felt honored to be a part of their lives.
The children at KBR Bongsuwung and Jombor are active and cheerful, bursting with ideas when we create crafts using natural materials, like terra-scapes and banana leaf boats. They required guidance, attention, and love, often lacking from busy parents caught up in daily demands. I felt called to provide support as a friend, learning to listen and create a safe space where they felt accepted, valued, and loved.
As a Theology student, I see that theology also speaks about how I can make a positive impact in society, especially for the marginalized. KBR Bongsuwung and Jombor became a space to experience theological and human values amid both sadness and joy, which often coexist. At times, I felt tired and sad due to the heat and exhaustion but was also inspired by the children’s spirit. I cherish every experience, both good and bad, committing to respect every individual and pay attention to the small ones. As an SCJ scholastic, following Father Dehon’s spirit, I aim to fight for a better life for the marginalized and give a voice to the unheard. I learned to be not just a companion but a trusted friend.
My experience as a volunteer at Realino SPM has made me more aware of social needs around me. I have become more aware of the various issues in society, especially for children and teenagers. This pushes me to think critically about how I can contribute to positive changes. I reflect that this experience is not only about giving but also about taking. The interaction with children and relationships with fellow volunteers have taught me valuable lessons about togetherness, love, and hope. I learned to appreciate every moment I live. I also realized that every small effort I make can significantly impact others’ lives. With a spirit of love, I am ready to be a messenger of love in the community and the Church. Each day is an opportunity to create meaningful changes in our lives and in the lives of those who are marginalized.
Contributor: Faustinus Trias Windu Aji, SCJ
