The Tapestry of Gratitude:

For three years, I have lived in Yogyakarta, experiencing many meetings and farewells. I’ve had extraordinary experiences that not everyone gets to have. I believe God designed all of this for me to appreciate as blessings in my life journey. From my first steps in Yogyakarta to finding a warm-hearted community, I felt everything was prepared for me.

My journey began when I started attending a private Jesuit university. I had many worries about making friends and developing relationships with others. Can I connect with people, or would I remain closed off? My fears started to fade when I volunteered with the Realino Community.

On February 14, 2023, I first entered the historic building located at Jalan Mataram No. 66, Yogyakarta. I vividly remember the atmosphere. It was hot outside, but I was greeted warmly by the smiles of the Realino community. This experience was my first interaction with Realino, and I noted the presence of Polo, a friendly dog that welcomed every volunteer. Despite my fears, I bravely explored this new place.

Soon, I was not alone; I joined friends in the Realino Community. Together, we interacted with children and residents in Bongsuwung and Jombor. We explored the narrow and winding streets of Yogyakarta and Central Java for educational scholarship surveys and occasionally indulged in Yogyakarta’s delightful culinary offerings.

Bongsuwung and Jombor hold a special place in my heart. Although I can no longer visit Bongsuwung due to displacement, both communities have taught me many valuable lessons. As Realino volunteers, we were always welcomed by the children and locals, whose lively stories and experiences brought joy. Their antics sometimes made me laugh or shake my head in disbelief, yet I eagerly looked forward to weekly visits.

A friend asked why we teach non-formal education to these children on weekends when they already learn in school. I paused and found my answer when a spirited child shared their daily life with us. While they may receive lessons at school, our approach offers something different. We bring not just education but also companionship and listening.

Another memorable experience as a Realino volunteer was home visits during scholarship surveys. I enjoyed meeting new people and hearing their stories, each family with their unique struggles. I felt grateful to be a small part of their journey. Sharing the survey moments with fellow volunteers deepened our understanding of presence and the importance of listening to those in need.

Lastly, my unexpected rise to coordinator for the Realino Community has been transformative. At just seventeen years old, I never imagined I’d take on this role, managing volunteers and social media while helping organize events in Bongsuwung and Jombor. This experience taught me to make choices confidently. A friend once said, “Nares is spreading her wings.” Through my experiences at Realino, my initial struggles found resolution, leading me to study in Yogyakarta without financial burden and to serve as an expression of gratitude.

I have come to realize that Realino is truly a home to return to. I am now more affirmed and grateful for my journey. As one song lyric goes, “You can call it home, as long as those you love are inside. ” Thank you, Realino, for the extraordinary experiences and the people I will always cherish.

AMDG.

Contribution: Aurelia Pradhita Nareswari Pangarso – volunteer Realino of 2023/2024